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Hidden Messages : What Our Words and Actions Are Really Telling Our Children
Elizabeth Pantley

McGraw-Hill, 2000 - 224 pages

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I love this book!

I was SO surprised to find that some of the things I have been doing to/for/with my children actually can have the opposite effect as what I had planned! Here I was thinking that I was being such a great mother, when huge mistakes were lurking beneath the surface. I hate to give away the punchline, so I won't give exact details, except to say that I have really changed my way of raising my children.

Another really great thing about this book is that it doesn't read like a million other boring parenting books -- the format is set up in stories that are a real joy to read. I found myself laughing and crying my way through them. The "Hidden Message" after each story often took my breath away - WOW! (I would think) I've never thought of it that way before.

I highly recommend this book - you'll learn things that you never expected to learn. It'll change your life. It did mine.


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Walking a mile...

"Hidden Messages" puts the reader back into the mind and heart of the child, and moves the reader to think more carefully about the things s/he says to, does for, and behaves around children. The book is based on the premise that most of us are "good parents" trying our best and incites us to think things through as we go through our everyday routines. The main thrust of the book is "walking a mile" in our children's shoes. Each section describes a common, everyday occurrence in family life, an incident that might not otherwise provoke a moment of thought...until viewed through a child's eyes. It then describes the child's possible interpretation, and discusses approaches.

When I read this book, I found myself saying over and over again, "Yes, I've done that...I've never thought of things that way..."

The book provokes thought on behalf of our children in a wise, witty, warm way that made me want to hug my children at the conclusion of every chapter. It offered reassurance that I'm just like most parents, yet gives me ways I can improve my communication style and be more mindful of the examples I set. I can't think of anyone who could not benefit from reading it.


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Really hits home!

This book is so wonderful and right on the mark! I found myself among the stories. It is really a wake up call. The stories are common and easy to relate to, they make you stop and think the next time you are talking when you think your children aren't listening. They hear eveything and don't we know it! Elizabeth's stories really hit home. After reading this book, I have found myself correcting my friends when observing them with their children. It's great to get an outsiders view of what is going on between you and your children and this book is quite the eye opener. My hat goes off to Elizabeth for another book well done!


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Food for Thought!

Elizabeth Pantley's latest book, extracts of which have been featured in the Practical Parenting newsletter. I love the style of this book; it takes stories bases on real life parenting situations and then draws out key messages about what we are really teaching our children; then pointers are provided for change. This book could also be used by practitioners in their work to prompt reflection and insight. Great book!

Dr Andy Gill


... says "Hidden Messages" scores a direct hit!

Did you know that there are better ways for parents to communicate with their children? Thanks to Elizabeth Pantley's book "Hidden Messages", parents will find that the answers are just a few words away.

Throughout the book, parents will discover how their own words and actions affect their child's behavioral development. The book includes sample situations and dialogue between parents and their children, and discusses the "hidden messages" that the parents have just expressed. Elizabeth further helps parents to understand their own actions and gives them ideas on how to change their behavior and how they communicate with their children.

"Hidden Messages" is sure to become a staple in every parenting library. I highly recommend it!


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