Feminine Appeal | Carolyn Mahaney

Feminine Appeal | Carolyn Mahaney | A Must Have Book for Our Generation of Christian Women

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Feminine Appeal

	Feminine Appeal Carolyn Mahaney Crossway Books, 2004 - 192 pages average customer review:based on 30 reviews view larger image
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highly recommended

Outstanding

I do not always choose the books I review. Sometimes I am able to request specific titles from publishers but other times titles arrive unannounced. This provides me with the opportunity to review books that I would not, under most other circumstances, read. Such is the case with Feminine Appeal, written by Carolyn Mahaney. I left the book in my shelf for several weeks before I dared to open it up. I was gratified to see that it was endorsed by many men far more godly (and masculine) than myself, so if someone is going to laugh at me for reading it, they will also have to mock John Piper, Josh Harris, Mark Dever, Wayne Grudem, Dennis Rainey and Randy Alcorn. I feel that I am in good company, and so much so that I can even admit that I found the book tremendously enjoyable.

Feminine Appeal is, of course, written primarily for women. Having prepared several audio tapes which examined Titus 2, Mahaney was challenged (apparently by Mark Dever) to publish these presentations in book format. Nancy Leigh DeMoss says that as she listened to these tapes "my heart rejoiced at her evident love for the truth and her clear, compelling presentation of this passage that outlines the " curriculum" that should be at the heart of all ministry by and to women. I was delighted when Carolyn agreed to put that teaching in book form."

Mahaney extracts seven feminine virtues from verses 3 to 5 of Titus 2. The verses read as follows:

Older women likewise are to be reverent in behavior, not slanderers or slaves to much wine. They are to teach what is good, and so train the young women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled, pure, working at home, kind, and submissive to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be reviled.

The seven virtues are:

* The delight of loving my husband
* The blessings of loving my children
* The safety of self-control
* The pleasure of purity
* The honor of working at home
* The rewards of kindness
* The beauty of submission

Each of these topics receives a single chapter in the book which concludes with a reflection on Mahaney's own mother, Margaret, who evidenced so many of these graces. Appended to the book is a study guide prepared by Nicole Mahaney Whitacre, daughter of C.J. and Carolyn.

There were at least two aspects of this book that stood out to me. First, in a book of this type it is always easy for an author to present herself as the example of all that is good and worthy. It is easy for an author to show how she has overcome the difficulties of life and now exemplifies the virtues of godliness. This is particularly prevalent in certain areas of the Christian world where Christian writers, speakers and singers feel they need to display the evidences of a type of anointing that transcends what the rest of us experience. I was glad to see that Mahaney is honest and humble. She humbly admits her own faults and her own shortcomings. She does not hold herself as the example of all that is good. At the same time she does not heap scorn upon herself. She is honest with those areas in which she has, by the power of the Holy Spirit, grown and developed. Yet she is also more than willing to admit where she still struggles and where her sinfulness has affected herself and her family.

The second aspect of this book that stood out to me was how closely Carolyn's life and ministry parallels that of her husband. The final words of the book could just as easily have been drawn from C.J.'s later book, Humility. Carolyn writes of her mother, "Although it's true, by worldly standards, that Margaret never accomplished anything great, in God's eyes she has achieved true greatness. Her life can be summed up by the words of our Lord: 'Whoever would be great among you must be your servant...even as the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many' (Matt. 20:26,28)." This tells me that Carolyn and C.J. are not merely building a facade - a fictitious persona which they present to the public while in private they are far different. It is clear that they truly do walk together and minister to each other. It is clear that they first apply what they learn to their own lives before sharing with others.

Not too long ago I expressed my belief that men do not mentor one another in the way the Bible encourages us to. I am sure that the same is true of women. A book like this can allow a woman to receive some encouraging, biblical mentorship. As John and Noel Piper express in their endorsement, "Feminine Appeal may be an excellent stand-in for the mentor they lack right now. For others, it will wonderfully complement the relationship they have with an older friend of the Titus 2 sort."

This book was a valuable read, even to one who has no feminine appeal! As I read I was challenged in the ways I understand my wife and was provided with much wisdom which I can share with her and even apply to my own life. I was given a greater appreciation for the precious gift God has given me in my wife. I give this book my unreserved recommendation for men or women.

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A Must Have Book for Our Generation of Christian Women

This is one of the best books I have ever read in the realm of being a Godly wife and mother. It is like having a godly mother who has raised children from infanthood to adulthood and had a happy marriage sit down and share what are the most important ways you can be a blessing to your family and husband. It really emphasizes the importance of family relations over worldly success and materialism. I would highly recommend it to anyone struggling in these roles or a new wife and mother.

Great, practical teaching

This book is a great practical companion to Titus 2 and the exhortation of being a Godly woman. I would highly recommend it!

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Feminine Appeal: Seven Virtues of a Godly Wife and Mother

Our generation of women are in the need of truth, and I am glad to say that Feminine Appeal has what the Church needs today. The seven virutes which were focused on in this book dealt with those of Titus 2:1-5. Carolyn Mahaney wrote from her own experience, and how she has tried to live out those seven virtues within her life. She writes from a biblical perspctive of womanhood, and does it in a gentle, practical way. I think it was a wonderful book, and would recommend it to any woman seeking God's way.

Going against the flow.

This book has not only been insightful but also heartwarming. It confirms what I aspire to be with grace and refreshing charisma. What a useful tool this book is and will be in years to come. As I am entering my newly adult life, these viewpoints will challenge and make me the Proverbs 31 woman I so long to be. Thanks Carolyn for this wonderful gift, and may the Lord use this as an enlightening mechanism to open women's eyes all throughout this country.

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