365 Nights: A Memoir of Intimacy | Charla Muller, Betsy Thorpe

365 Nights: A Memoir of Intimacy | Charla Muller, Betsy Thorpe | A delightful read with insights on life as well as marriage

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	365 Nights: A Memoir of Intimacy Charla Muller, Betsy Thorpe Berkley Trade, 2008 - 288 pages average customer review:based on 37 reviews view larger image
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highly recommended

When Charla Muller?s husband turned 40, she gave him something memorable. Sex. Every day. For an entire year.

The Mullers had a solid marriage and two wonderful children, but over the years sex had fallen low on their to-do list. The lack of intimacy wasn?t causing them to drift apart, exactly, but their connection didn?t seem as great as it could be. Charla decided she couldn?t go on pretending the relationship they once had wasn?t important.

The couple would embark on a year of scheduled sex, falling over Tonka trucks and piles of laundry in an effort to make time for each other. There were obstacles along the way (work implosions, faking it) and questions came to light. Will sex every day strengthen a marriage, or reveal the cracks? Pull a couple together or drive them apart? Does good sex (even mediocre sex) make up for things that aren?t so good?

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This is a gem -- and not just for women

As a husband and father of two, I was intrigued with the title of this book. Is there a woman out there who would actually offer her man a full year of sex? I picked up this book with two thoughts in mind: 1) How did her husband get so lucky? and 2) How do I get my wife to read this book? I was soon to discover that this is not a "how to" book, and to be honest, I was a bit disappointed. But the more I read, the more interested I became. In fact, it was difficult to put down. Charla's observations and accounts are really quite humorous. There were a number of times when I couldn't help but laugh out loud because I'd been through similar situations. In fact, many of the trials and tribulations of her marriage hit extremely close to home (yes, my wife and I once had a heated discussion about whether Santa Claus wraps gifts or not). The more I read, the more I laughed and related. But tucked between the lines of humor is a sincere message--a marriage without regular intimacy is like two good friends raising kids together. And as we married folk know, a healthy dose of intimacy can improve an inconceivable (no pun) number of miscellaneous marital issues. Parents with kids realize that "alone time" in a marriage is a luxury that often gets a very low priority (behind soccer practice, scout meetings, and lawn care). Hey, this isn't supposed to be a guidebook for marital passion or an urban housewife's version of the Kama Sutra. It's a lighthearted look inside the marriage of a typical suburban wife and mother. It just so happens that the typical suburban husband and father can relate to it too. I really enjoyed this book. To be quite honest, I was sorry to come to the end of this one.

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A delightful read with insights on life as well as marriage

Easy to read- enjoyable to the last page. This book isn't so much about sex as it is about relationships, self confidence and how doing just one thing can snowball into all sorts of other wonderful feelings and experiences. I thought it was well written and perfectly tasteful- for all audiences. If you are looking for smut this is not the book for you. Charla is just one of us- juggling family, self, partner and dreams. Well done!!!! A must read!

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