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Red Sky In Mourning: A True Story of Love, Loss, and Survival at Sea
Tami Oldham Ashcraft, Susea Mcgearhart

Hyperion, 2003 - 240 pages

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New available in paperback, a true-life adventure story with everything: page-turning suspense, remarkable acts of courage, wrenching despair, and a triumphant, life-affirming ending.

Red Sky in Mourning is the story of Tami Oldham Ashcraft's 41-day journey to safety, which she survived through fortitude and sheer strength of character. Interspersed with flashbacks to her romance with her doomed fiance Richard, this survival story offers an inspiring reminder that even in our darkest moments we are never truly alone.


Strong women survive

The title is a paraphrase of the old saying, "Red sky at morning, sailors take warning," but the sky was gray and stormy when the Hazana capsized, throwing Tami Oldhamšs fiance overboard. Losing Richard Sharp was just the beginning of Tamišs forty-one-day struggle to survive. This is the story of how she overcame her intense grief and loneliness, found the will to go on alone and, despite her physical and emotional wounds, sailed the crippled Hazana over 1500 miles to safety.

The story begins on September 23, 1983, as Tami and Richard leave Tahiti for what they believe will be a side trip on their cruise around the South Pacific and New Zealand. A British couple has hired them to deliver their boat to San Diego while the couple flies home on a family emergency. What happens after Tami and Richard leave Papeete Harbor will have you absorbed until the last page.

Tamišs descriptions of her fear and despair are so real that you can almost feel these emotions yourself. Though you know that she will make it through, you keep reading to see how she does it and to be reassured that she finds happiness again.

The story moves back and forth between her early sailing days, her romance with Richard, and the journey that she ultimately survives alone. The idyllic scenes of their lovemaking on the boat and islands in the South Pacific make the final outcome especially poignant.

As they fight to sail through a hurricane, Richard sends her below deck, saving her life. The last thing she hears is Richardšs scream before she is knocked unconscious. When the storm has passed, Tami awakens to find that Richard is gone, the Hazanašs motor and radio are useless, and all the masts are broken. She manages to figure out her position at sea using the stars, a map and some plotting instruments. Then she rigs a makeshift sail and heads for Hawaii.

Alone and questioning her fate, she is answered by what she calls The Voice--leaving the reader to decide if The Voice is God, Tami's inner self, Richard, or the universe. The Voice ultimately talks her out of suicide and keeps her going on to find land or a rescue vessel. When she finds a box of cigars and a case of Hinano beer--Richardšs and her favorite--and goes up on deck to smoke a cigar and drink the warm beer, you know she has turned the corner. Somehow, this woman will survive.

It is not a direct path, however, from grief to hope. Tami slid into suicidal despair several times during her journey--even within sight of land at her journey's end. When she realizes the island within her view is not her imagination, her relief and joy break through on the page.

As a Japanese research vessel spots her approaching and tows her into the harbor at Hilo, Tami wonders who will meet her. The days that follow are full of interviews, Coast Guard investigations, and reunions with family and friends. In her attempt to regain a normal life, she looks for someone to untangle her matted hair without cutting it off--a job which took three beauticians two days.

For readers unfamiliar with sailing, there is a glossary in the back of the book. I must admit that I got tired of flipping to it for definitions of boat parts and sailing techniques, but providing definitions within the text probably would have taken away from the narrative tension. For instance, brightwork is the term for the unpainted, wooden boat parts that must be cleaned and varnished. I learned that people like Tami make a living doing this.

The writing overall is smooth and engrossing. The story provides a fascinating look at the world of people who live on boats and sail around the world for weeks or even months in search of adventure.

Perhaps most important, Red Sky In Mourning is a strong testament to the human spirit, the will to live, the voice within, and what one strong woman can do.

From a review previously posted at www.storycircle.org/BookReviews.





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Required Reading

This book was way overdue, it should have been on the market in the 80's, but I am not surprised this author needed years to digest the experience. I read the book in one sitting at first, but have been going back and back through it for the details. We live near the Atlantic shore and thought about buying a boat this summer. As each new "pre-boat" research book arrives through Amazon, that day we sail on anything we call our own is justifiably getting bumped another season, and then perhaps even another. There is just so much to learn.

The part that stands out for me most is Tami's emphasis on the traditional science of celestial navigation - she and Tania Aebi together bring home that it wasn't so long ago (the 80's) that not everyone had a GPS, and that in the case of some catastrophic satellite failure in the future, basic survival skills (how to make fire) should never be taken for granted. A book for anyone contemplating or owning a sailboat, for certain ... for anyone owning a power boat, a smart buy ... for anyone who loves a great read .. that it is, too.


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Very Gripping, Powerful and Sad

As a cruising sailor I was hesitant to read this book - knowing that it would not have a happy ending. However, it was truly a fascinating story because it takes you through a journey that had to be real and not fiction. It makes you contemplate whether you would have had the strength and knowledge to survive under such terrible circumstances. A must for all cruisers to read - it will make all of you be much more concerned about safety and weather conditions and teaches the importance of boat knowledge. This book teaches that you can't take life for granted.


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Painfully Honest True Life Survival at Sea

A man would probably never write this story. But don't let that stop you from reading it. I'm guessing the negative reviewer who gave this book a measly 1 star is someone who never faced danger or had to deal with extreme loneliness and loss.

This is a painfully honest and sometimes embarrassing look back at the experiences of a young woman who survived at sea after her boat was knocked down and dismasted in a hurricane and her soul mate swept overboard.

In fact, it's the savage honesty and emotion that makes this book unique in the genre, which is why I say no man who survived at sea would write it. I've read many survival at sea stories, and many solo-circumnavigation stories, from both men and women. Thinking back to the other stories, I can't say for sure if the authors were as forthright in their description of mental anguish and emotional pain. Let's face it, some people may not want to admit these weaknesses, and others, well, they just don't have them.

It happened a couple of times, while reading "Red Sky...", I was on the verge of saying, "Sheesh, OK already. It happened. Get over it." But because I recently experienced a tragic loss, and perhaps because of my frame of mind, I understood what she was going through and never actually reached the cringe factor breaking point. The truth is, her age, her isolation, and her loss, made me think her method of coping was actually logical and healthy -- and also instructive to others who have experienced a tragic loss, regardless of where, how, or when.

This is a part nautical survival, adventure romance and self-help grief book. If you want a primer on how to survive a knock down at sea, you'll need to buy something else. If you want to read how a guy survived by making a fish net out of his underwear, or built a still from his jacket lining, you might want to pass on this one. Believe me, there are great books written by people who survived a lot longer on a lot less than Tami Oldham Ashcraft. Yes, this one has plenty of authentic boat talk and adventurous sailing and ports of call; there's also plenty of gushy romanticizing and therapeutic purging, a lot of the latter in the form of inner voices.

Some people might find the inner voice references a bit too metaphysical. I found them logical and introspective. They made sense to me, given her situation, and, obviously, it's not such an uncommon theme. Look at the movie with Tom Hanks, Castaway, in which he befriends a soccer ball named, Wilson. I, myself, have spent a good deal of time in isolation. I know about inner voices.

If you want an honest first person account of a young woman's mental and physical trials at sea after a terrible loss, written by a spiritual, adventurous, emotionally-bare person, this is one I would recommend.

-seabgb


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Great Tale for Women

I did my best with this book but I couldn't finish it. I was underwhelmed by the writing, which seemed geared toward young adults and readers of romance fiction. The numerous description of the author's vanished consort and the cliched snippets of erotica that went with them were too much for me. I felt at times that I was reading one of those books that people leave behind on airplane seats. This doesn't detract from my admiration of Ms. Ashcraft and her journey. I just wish she'd chosen a different collaborator.


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